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It takes time and effort to overcome the hurt when someone does you wrong. But you can surely be happy and peaceful again. You are not alone, this blog is there to help you.  Don't victimize yourself:  Doing wrong with you is someone else's foolishness, then why should you feel like a victim? Stop thinking, Why it happened to you? Why someone or some people did wrong to you? Instead, think: They, he, or she is unwise people/person and has a negative attitude towards life. Consider this situation as an opportunity to learn about people. When you see problems as opportunities, you begin to learn. Heal your soul with meditation:  Meditation helps reducing stress, calming the mind, and channelizing thoughts. When you are deeply hurt, mental energies may reduce and the frequency of thoughts may increases. Meditate to heal your soul and mind. Express your feelings: Either express to that person/those people that   knowingly or unknowingly they have hurt you ...

With the conflict in relationships, there comes anxiety, no communication, or counter. And resolving conflict can take the time or may never get resolved. So, why not avoid the conflict itself? How one can do that? Keep reading! Be Respectful Every human being wants respect in life. You have no control over how others talk to you but by being respectful you can avoid giving any lead to others to disrespect you. You can not only avoid the conflict but also get respect from others. Make  it a rule for life and help yourself in living a peaceful life. Avoid an argument If a person argue and tells "No, I am right, you are wrong" then it is better to say "you are right". A discussion happens when two people listen to each other's point of view. A wise person would like to discuss not argue. In such a situation  dissolve any chance of conflict  by  either agreeing or ignoring.   Avoid Personal comments:  Making personal comments on oth...

"She is the goddess,   She is the power,    However,     She did not know her strength,    Until she explored it."    A woman must live her life independently, not specifically financially, but in her believes and way of living. Whether you are a working woman or a homemaker, if you want to live life as a strong and independent woman, nurture these qualities in you. 1. Decisiveness:   "She often gets confused about small things like, which dress to purchase, which lipstick to wear or how to reply to a text, …And when it comes to making big decisions, she sits on the fence. She seeks others to decide: which career to pursue, whom to marry or how to handle a conflict" If you are indecisive like her, then someone else either parents, spouse, friend, or colleague will make decisions for you. There will be a dependency always. Well, others can suggest you or can tell you the pros and cons, or may impose their decisions on you but ...

Human beings think differently in different situations. Sometimes emotional, sometimes practical, negative, positive, etc. However, some are more emotional, some are more practical, some have more positive thinking whereas some have more negative thoughts. For a situation, one person who thinks practically may wonder why another person is being emotional and can not have a practical approach. Or a person may wonder why another person has a negative opinion about a positive thing. Although, we need to understand and accept that each individual is different and thinks differently. By doing that, you are much prepared for their's actions and reactions as well. Learn 7 different types of thinking, and benefit yourself in dealing with people in a better way. Read 7 different types of thinking: Wishful:  Wishful thinking leads to thoughts about situations or desires that may not happen in real life. With such thinking one may dream, believe that it is real, can have unrealistic exp...

People try to understand "what is love" but a wise person will want to understand "how to become love". If you become love, love comes to you. People fall in love, make many mistakes, and then deal with the pain for years. If you become love you love without pain. Love does not hurt and if it does then it is Not-Love. They say, 'good love', 'true love' or 'supreme love' but I think love does not need an adjective, the word LOVE itself has depth. It is good, true, supreme and so it is called love. Learn the qualities that can make you a warm, adorable, and lovable person. 1. Genuine: The one who is in love will be true to its feelings with its partner as well as with self. They will say what they think and will do what they say. There is no place for lies, manipulation, and selfishness. Every gesture of affection, eye-contact, word, and action reflects their genuine loveful soul. 2. Love and Respect: "If the foundation of a ...

"I should get the promotion in this quarter" "My colleague should cooperate with me" "My wife does not take care of the family well" "He is my husband, he should support me" "My friend did not come to see me when I was ill" "He did not care for me when I needed the most" "A friend must call in a difficult time" All these statements sound so correct and convincing but having expectations from others, whether reasonable or unreasonable is disappointing. Things that you expect from others may not happen when you want or the way you want them to happen and sometimes may never happen. This is how life is, "unpredictable". Ask yourself, Is it ok to expect so much from someone? Am I being realistic and reasonable with my expectations? Do I want to live life with disappointments? If expectations causes disappointments then, is it not better to be free from all the expectations? How life will be dif...

“I will start working out from tomorrow”, “I want to reduce my weight, I should go running every morning”,  “Once the work pressure is reduced, I will join the gym.” Thoughts like these keep recurring in the mind for months and sometimes for years but that tomorrow never comes, morning running is always missed and the work pressure is never reduced and so the workout never gets started.☺ It happens with many that they decide to start the workout but cannot start and postpone it or workout only for a few days but could not continue.  If you too are not able to start or continue the workout then let me help you in preparing your mind so that you,  start working out on your own, make time for it,   find it interesting and  continue it forever.  Keep reading! Why one should workout?  Ask yourself, Am I giving importance to my health? Is it the first priority in my life?  It is very well said that "health is wealth" and it's tru...