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How to become LOVE

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People try to understand "what is love" but a wise person will want to understand "how to become love". If you become love, love comes to you. People fall in love, make many mistakes, and then deal with the pain for years. If you become love you love without pain. Love does not hurt and if it does then it is Not-Love. They say, 'good love', 'true love' or 'supreme love' but I think love does not need an adjective, the word LOVE itself has depth. It is good, true, supreme and so it is called love. Learn the qualities that can make you a warm, adorable, and lovable person. 1. Genuine: The one who is in love will be true to its feelings with its partner as well as with self. They will say what they think and will do what they say. There is no place for lies, manipulation, and selfishness. Every gesture of affection, eye-contact, word, and action reflects their genuine loveful soul. 2. Love and Respect: "If the foundation of a ...

How To Lower Your Expectations From Others

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"I should get the promotion in this quarter" "My colleague should cooperate with me" "My wife does not take care of the family well" "He is my husband, he should support me" "My friend did not come to see me when I was ill" "He did not care for me when I needed the most" "A friend must call in a difficult time" All these statements sound so correct and convincing but having expectations from others, whether reasonable or unreasonable is disappointing. Things that you expect from others may not happen when you want or the way you want them to happen and sometimes may never happen. This is how life is, "unpredictable". Ask yourself, Is it ok to expect so much from someone? Am I being realistic and reasonable with my expectations? Do I want to live life with disappointments? If expectations causes disappointments then, is it not better to be free from all the expectations? How life will be dif...

How to make up your mind to workout persistently?

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“I will start working out from tomorrow”, “I want to reduce my weight, I should go running every morning”,  “Once the work pressure is reduced, I will join the gym.” Thoughts like these keep recurring in the mind for months and sometimes for years but that tomorrow never comes, morning running is always missed and the work pressure is never reduced and so the workout never gets started.☺ It happens with many that they decide to start the workout but cannot start and postpone it or workout only for a few days but could not continue.  If you too are not able to start or continue the workout then let me help you in preparing your mind so that you,  start working out on your own, make time for it,   find it interesting and  continue it forever.  Keep reading! Why one should workout?  Ask yourself, Am I giving importance to my health? Is it the first priority in my life?  It is very well said that "health is wealth" and it's tru...

15 Valuable Tips To Develop Good Relationships In A Social Group

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Having good relationships in a social group is a very important aspect of life. If your relationships with your spouse, family, friends, colleagues, and relatives are healthy you will be happy and peaceful, else there will be conflicts, stress, and unhappiness. In this blog, you will find 15 valuable tips to develop good relationships in a social group. Let's get started! Having good relationships is one of the aspects of being successful in life. There are people who are successful in their careers but are not happy in life. If you want to be successful as well as happy in life then you should learn to develop harmony in relationships. Here are some valuable tips:  1. Love and Respect:  Just like a strong foundation defines the reliability of a house, similarly, if a relationship is based on love and respect then it lasts for life and brings happiness in life. Every human being wants "love and respect" in life. If you start giving love and re...

How To Deal With A Conflicting Mind

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Are multiple unanswered questions haunting your mind? Why and how did you get into this state of mind? Are you not able to figure out what is right and wrong? Wondering who is genuinely with you? If you are in such a state of mind, then probably you are spending a lot of time with people with whom your friendship or relationship is fake, someone is playing with your mind, you have become too dependent on someone, someone is manipulating you or you are doing something unusual from your basic nature. How one should deal with such a situation? And how should you resolve the conflict that is going in mind so that you can focus on other things that really matters in life? Below are some valuable tips! 1.  A clashing situation which is not getting solved and causing conflict in mind is not going to create anything positive and healthy in life. It will only drain your energies and you will end up wasting your time. In one's life, nobody and nothing should be more importan...

How To Be Compassionate And How It Is Beneficial In Life

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Life is not just about making a career, earning money and to think only about oneself, but it is also about understanding and helping others. The word compassion may sound idealistic but it is one of the assets that every human being should have to live a happier life. Anyone can learn to be compassionate, by being aware of life.  To be aware and be happier in life, keep reading!  About compassion Compassion is to empathize, to be concerned, be kind and be caring for sufferings and hardships of other people. A compassionate person will go out of the way to help others may be helping a poor kid financially, a blind person to cross the road or an injured person to reach to the hospital. A compassionate person feels the moral and social responsibility to help others. Compassion is also to understand that every person in this world is facing their own unique problem and everyone has their own experiences of pain and failures. A compassionate person can understand p...