Don't Chase Power

 


Can you become powerful in any relationship?
Is it worth having a power fight?

You may achieve power by being rich or by being in authority. 
What about a good relationship? 

In a parent-child relationship, is it the power of parents that makes the relationship beautiful?
In a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, is it the authority of mother-in-law that creates a special bond between the two?

It is never like that. You don't need power for making a good relationship.

Today you feel the power, you have authority, you are healthy. Life changes, you lose, and you don't have the same strength forever. You need family and friends to support you. Power will not help you to have a supportive and loving support system for you.
 
If power is not forever, which is the thing that one can have forever?

Affection.

Affection for your family no matter how the situation is.
Affection for friends, even if they seem to be mad. :)
Affection for people, even if they are not close to you.

So, do you want to be powerful?

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