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Where is LIFE?
Everyday... in the rat race worrying about the future, working under pressure, dissatisfied with what you have, with that feeling of no success, Where is LIFE? --Sometimes... Slow down, Calm down, Sit back and relax, Connect with your soul, Be with yourself and your people, Feel content with what you have. Live! Your time will come. ~Priya Gokhale
8 Qualities To Become A Strong And Independent Woman
"She is the goddess, She is the power, However, She did not know her strength, Until she explored it." A woman must live her life independently, not specifically financially, but in her believes and way of living. Whether you are a working woman or a homemaker, if you want to live life as a strong and independent woman, nurture these qualities in you. 1. Decisiveness: "She often gets confused about small things like, which dress to purchase, which lipstick to wear or how to reply to a text, …And when it comes to making big decisions, she sits on the fence. She seeks others to decide: which career to pursue, whom to marry or how to handle a conflict" If you are indecisive like her, then someone else either parents, spouse, friend, or colleague will make decisions for you. There will be a dependency always. Well, others can suggest you or can tell you the pros and cons, or may impose their decisions on you but only you can understand what is be
When More Becomes Too Much
You have complaints in relationships... That they don't call you, they don't come and meet you, or maybe they don't love you anymore. You chase that loved one, you feel hurt, and you be angry. Does it change them? Does it change your life? Does it improve your relationship? You cannot change people and their feelings by complaining. Does it matter to you if never changes? Does it matter if they never feel the same for you? It should not. Now, don't think negatively about it. If they don't reciprocate the love and care you give them, then why should you do so much? Too many efforts in relationships do not have any value. Instead of trying to change them or their feelings, change your approach and your attitude in this relationship. Stop doing a looooot... Because when more becomes too much, less is more than enough! :) Take care.
If It Is Not OK
Have you ever found things wrong, not your type or weirdest in any relationship, be it love or friendship? Did you express it or ignore it? If you say that it is not right, there could be a conflict. If you pretend it is ok, you don't feel comfortable in that relationship, be it friendship or love. You should have open communication in your relationships. Don't fake. If you find it wrong, you must communicate. It is much better to say than think or judge. Don't have fears, what they will think, and how they will react because... if it is not ok, it is ok to say that it is not ok. ~Priya Be Strong Be Human
The last but one quote, I believe a man(or anyone for that matter) also loves when someone else appreciates their efforts, self-appreciation/realization is necessary, but for how long? I as a man do care when someone close to me appreciates small things I do.
ReplyDeleteThat's true, we all love to get appreciated for our efforts. However, others appreciate or not, it completely depends on them. Firstly, we should feel good about what we do. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that! :)
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