How To Avoid Conflict

With the conflict in relationships, there comes anxiety, no communication, or counter.
And resolving conflict can take the time or may never get resolved.

So, why not avoid the conflict itself?

How one can do that?

Keep reading!

Be Respectful
Every human being wants respect in life. You have no control over how others talk to you but by being respectful you can avoid giving any lead to others to disrespect you. You can not only avoid the conflict but also get respect from others. Make it a rule for life and help yourself in living a peaceful life.


Avoid an argument
If a person argue and tells "No, I am right, you are wrong" then it is better to say "you are right". A discussion happens when two people listen to each other's point of view. A wise person would like to discuss not argue. In such a situation dissolve any chance of conflict by either agreeing or ignoring. 

Avoid Personal comments: Making personal comments on others' weaknesses or failures, etc can hurt someone and can lead to a conflict. Be sensitive towards others, appreciate and motivate them, it is beneficial to people as well as to yourself.

Have low expectations: Expecting a lot from others leads to disappointments, complains, blames and conflicts. Do have very low expectations from others. You can read my blog on how to lower your expectations from others in which you will find very helpful tips. 

Agree or disagree respectfully

Each person has its perception and thinks that their outlook is right. There can not be any conflict if you agree on another person's perception. Disagreeing and negating can make someone feel offensive. To have harmony with people, agree or disagree respectfully. To disagree phrases like below can be used:

 “I agree with that but I think …”

“Maybe you are right but I don’t agree with that…”

“With due respect, I don’t agree with ... and I feel …”

Have less interaction with the toxic person
Toxic people have all the traits that can build the conflict and one needs to keep them away. However, unfortunately, where ever you will go you will find toxic people. The best thing to do is to have the least possible interaction with them. Be busy for them or ignore but make sure to protect yourself from them. 

Shield yourself from unhealthy group dynamics

If dynamics in any of your groups are not positive, healthy and friendly then find a person with whom you feel more comfortable. Be with this person more than others. It can be helpful in staying positive in the group. 


Don't be unnecessarily authoritative 
An authoritative way of conversation is understandable by a boss with its employees or by parents with their kids. But, with friends and family, one needs to be sociable and friendly. People do not want to take the orders and therefore it can lead to conflict. Such phrases can be used:

Hey, can we do ...?

Do you want to ...?

Would you like to ...?

Avoid a controversial topic

A topic on which there had been an argument in the past or any sensitive topic that can hurt others should be avoided as it will surely begin the conflict. Such a topic should be of your least interest.

Conflict takes peace of mind away. Use these techniques to avoid conflict and live life peacefully. 

~Priya
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