Why empower yourself ?

What could reduce your power?
When you are dealing with conflicts in relationships or at the workplace, facing politics in the workplace, have gone through a painful situation in the past or even when you just see some disturbing news on TV, the world looks crazy and life looks very tough and unfair. And you will find that your energies are getting wasted in dealing with it.

Why difficult situations come?
In most of the cases, it is human desires and weaknesses that be the cause of a difficult situation in one's life. Any complicated situation will bring panic, fear, anxiety, guilt or anger in one’s life.
When life gets complicated, you may feel weak and low. It will become difficult to get out of the situation and to take a stand for yourself. It is one's unawareness that brings indecisiveness to understand what to do, how to do, when to stop, how to assess what is right and what is wrong.

These weaknesses should be addressed and worked on so that even if such a situation comes one should be able to take a good and healthy decision. Rather than being angry or fearful one should maintain its love, respect, peace and then act accordingly. Life will remain complicated, difficulties will keep coming and emotions of fear and anger may arrive but it is important to come back to love, respect and peace to live a simple and beautiful life. 

What one should do?
As a human being, it is necessary to empower yourself to deal with the world and to deal with people. Find ways to stay positive, happy and peaceful in spite of the existence of all the negative energies around. Develop this ability, to make life simple where you can pursue your dreams and desires along with keeping happiness and peace in life.



“Be Strong Be Human”
- Priya


             
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